I am beautiful. Say that aloud and you might see some frown faces unless you are detailed beautifully by nature. Yet you know you are, only from a different dimension. What holds you back from admitting it then? I know. You fear disagreement. You feel bound. You are bound because you let others do it to you and thus you start believing that you are caged due to your own shortcomings. You believe you are not beautiful as the world doesn’t see you that way and you consider it your fault. It surely is if you haven’t been able to prove the not so similar attractiveness that you behold. Things need a perspective change now.
Peep inside and you would
acknowledge that no one can see what you see no one can feel what you feel. No
one is you and you are no one else. This creates all the difference. We all are
different entities surrounded by different manifestations of life. We vision
and solve in our own ways one distinctive from the other. How then do we fear
being lost? We are lost because we never held that rope of self-trust and self-belonging
firmly. It can be a reason that we never registered the bond. First of all stop
locating yourself in others. We practice this unaware in times of distress and
failures. Breakdowns wrench us of our confidence compelling us to search for
people with similarities as we are frightened that we cannot lift ourselves
alone and so the other. Or in other cases you notice the successful lot which
at one time gives you the reason to stand but another failure and it leaves you
further broken. Remember you cannot find your confidence in others. You can
only look up to them for encouragement and just that. The more you wish their
success to be replicated in yours, the more you get distanced from yourself.
This is harmful in the long go.
We are all granted with variety of
raw materials that define our dreams. These need to be fit together and
eventually fabricated into reality. The process requires efforts. While playing
blocks you used to start zestfully and still couldn’t make the desired design.
You had to try every time with a new strategy and mould accordingly until you
achieved. It is you who has to make a choice; no one else will on your behalf.
Even if you are designed for it, you will have to earn it.
All those who say we were gifted are smartly trying to conceal the pains they had to take in order to gain that
gift. It is a self-interested world. Nobody is living for you. Why would
anybody want to see you succeed, except you?
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